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DEIGHT SOCIALS & MEMBERS' SOCIALS
Members' Socials are for approved DEIGHT Members.

DEIGHT MEMBERSHIP

MORE OF DEIGHT. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT.

THE PREMIUM SOCIAL CLUB FOR SINGLES OVER 30. 30s • 40s • 50s +. ACROSS THE MIDLANDS.

FREE TO APPLY · FREE TO JOIN ON APPROVAL · NO SUBSCRIPTION

WHAT MEMBERSHIP IS

MEMBERS UNLOCK THE PRIVATE SIDE OF DEIGHT.

Membership is free to apply and free to join on approval. Every application is personally reviewed; approval is not automatic or guaranteed.

You don't need to be a member to attend a DEIGHT Social. Approved members access private Members' Socials and experiences, booking and paying for the ones they choose to attend.

THE TWO SIDES OF DEIGHT

CHOOSE YOUR WAY IN.

OPEN TO EVERYONE

DEIGHT SOCIALS

Larger public socials open to guests and members. No membership is required, and a public DEIGHT pop-up mixer runs once a month in each active city, open to non-members and guests. Attending a public Social does not create membership.

BOOK DIRECTLY

FOR APPROVED MEMBERS

MEMBERS' SOCIALS

Private socials and experiences exclusively for approved, ID-verified DEIGHT Members. Members book and pay as they go for the experiences they choose to attend.

Experience types include Midweek & Friday Lounge Socials / Members Mixers, Saturday Premium Experiences and Sunday Reset Socials. Not every type is scheduled in every city.

THE MEMBER PATH

HOW TO JOIN DEIGHT

01

APPLY

It's free to apply.

02

GET APPROVED

Every application is personally reviewed.

03

GET VERIFIED

Approved members complete one-time ID verification.

04

BECOME A DEIGHT MEMBER

There is no monthly membership fee.

05

CHOOSE WHAT YOU ATTEND

Pay as you go for the Members' Socials and experiences you choose.

WHAT YOU PAY

KEEP IT SIMPLE.

Free to apply. Free to join once approved. There is no subscription and no monthly membership fee.

Members pay as they go for the Members' Socials and experiences they choose to attend. Nothing is included with membership.

ACROSS THE MIDLANDS

ONE MEMBERSHIP. EVERY DEIGHT CITY.

Wherever DEIGHT goes, your membership goes with you.

Approved members can attend across the Midlands — Nottingham, Birmingham, Leicester and surrounding areas — subject to availability. Event types and dates vary by city, and we do not guarantee an event in every city.

REAL PEOPLE. VERIFIED.

QUICK. ONE-TIME. VERIFIED.

Identity verification is for approved members only, and it's completed just once, after your membership application has been approved, before your first Members' Social. Guests attending an open DEIGHT Social do not need to complete it.

EXCLUSIVELY FOR APPROVED DEIGHT MEMBERS

THE MEMBERS' CALENDAR

We're creating a growing calendar of private Members' Socials and experiences across the Midlands.

A preview of the kinds of Members' Socials we're building — examples, not a schedule.

EXAMPLES OF MEMBERS' SOCIALS & EXPERIENCES

  • PRIVATE DINNERS & FINE DINING

    Long-table dinners · private dining rooms · tasting menus · chef's tables · supper clubs

  • COCKTAIL PARTIES & DRINKS

    Cocktail evenings · rooftop drinks · wine socials · live music lounges

  • WINE TASTINGS

    Hosted tastings · cellar evenings · paired dinners · regional wine nights

  • MEMBERS' MIXERS

    Midweek socials · Friday lounge socials · relaxed conversation-led evenings

  • BRUNCHES & SUNDAY SOCIALS

    Weekend brunches · Sunday roasts · coffee clubs · countryside and pub walks · wellness mornings

  • ACTIVITIES & EXPERIENCES

    Boat parties · vineyard tours · spa and wellness days · festival trips · curated social nights

  • ADVENTURE WEEKENDS AWAY

    Weekend retreats and trips · race days · seasonal days out · away weekends

  • SEASONAL & SPECIAL EVENTS

    Summer and Christmas parties · black tie dinners · New Year's events · anniversary parties · one-off occasions

Members hear first when new events are released in the locations they've selected.

A GOOD FIT

IS DEIGHT FOR YOU?

DEIGHT is for single people who genuinely want to meet others.

OPEN TO CONVERSATION

You want to talk to people and get to know them.

READY TO PARTICIPATE

You don't need to be an extrovert. You simply need to be willing to get involved.

RESPECTFUL & WELCOMING

Help create the kind of atmosphere you'd want to walk into yourself.

OPEN TO CONNECTION

You want to meet people and see where a richer social life can lead.

Sound like you? We'd love to hear from you.

COME TO A SOCIAL. BECOME A MEMBER. EXPERIENCE MORE.

Meet people through our larger DEIGHT Socials or apply to join and unlock our private Members' Socials.

30s • 40s • 50s +

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